About

Hi, I'm Nat.

This is an extension of my social media outreach, teaching people about sexual coercion in marriage, or Marital Coercion. This is a covert form of emotional and sexual abuse in which one person is routinely putting pressure on their partner to perform sexually. It includes a wide range of verbal and non-verbal messaging that tells someone they're wrong to not have sex regardless of the reasons they might not be enticed to engage sexually.

The work I do is intended to bring education to the public and change to the men (it is mostly men) who do this, but primarily, I offer validation to millions of women around the world who had no idea this behavior was abusive. 

Income from this project helps me keep doing this regularly.Merch designs are inspired from things we talk about on TikTok and Instagram (@mending.me). 

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@mending.me #stitch with @mending.me if you’re not that man, raise your hand by saying “just stay single” or “fine, be a lesbian then” 😉 #MARITALCOERCION ♬ original sound - 👸🏻Nat 🍉

 

@mending.me We have a safe community here. Hundreds of women commenting every day sharing stories. And trolls are served for breakfast. #MARITALCOERCION ♬ Follow Me - Jasmine Thompson
@mending.me Reply to @vandalstookthehandles6 ♬ Best Shot - Jimmie Allen